about this blog

i know exactly whats coming up next…im probably going to get a million msgs about when im continuing or completing this blog.

ive already received alot of msgs etc and ive met a couple of good old friends asking me when im going to write that final post.

but if you know me personally you will understand what a rat race my life has been like this year.

i moved from one town to another. my brother got very ill and then my mum was ill and then my sister went for an op and in all that i found out i was expecting. my pregnancy was very taxing since its my 4th and i had 3 other kids to see to. my boys started school this year after being home schooled all this time which meant sitting with homework everyday. i also was feeling very tired and weak during my pregnancy and i recently just gave birth.

so honestly i was in no mood for blogging. i havent even read other blogs in the past year or done anything as a hobby actually. so please bare with me.

im trying to get on my feet and juggle everything at the same time. i have it in the back of my mind that i promised to end this story and inshallah if Allah gives me the strength and inspiration… i will!

jazakallah to all of you for being so patient and not giving up on me and for understanding that there are far more important things in life than blogging or writing fictional stories.

anyway…i hope your ramadaans been going well…please rem me and my family in ur duas and have a blessed eid wherever you are in the world.

take care and until i get my bearings straight.. assalamu alaykum

bibi ayesha


marriage conference 2017

assalamu alaykum/peace to one and all

if youve been following me for a while, you would know that last year round about this time there were a couple of posts regarding the marriage conference that was coming up at the sandton convention centre.

this year its back again and probably for the last time in johannesburg. its much bigger and far better than it was last year with a whole load of extra items added to the itenary.

im usually not one to attend seminars and conferences etc but since i was involved last year, i attended the conference and id like you all to know that i dont regret it in the least.

it was by far an amazing experience. the amount learnt in just that oneday was unbelievable. the speakers were phenomenal and the things they brought to light touched my heart in a way il never be able to express.

although there were thousands of people, it was as if the speakers were speaking directly to me. 

whether you are already married, divorced, widowed, a single parent, looking to get married or have been married for years… theres so much to learn for every category of people.

marriage is a sunnah of our beloved nabi sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam. it completes half our faith, however its no secret how many of our muslim marriages are failing today and the number is increasing everyday. attending the marriage conference will not only help you better ur marriage, but will teach you about your own self as it has taught me about myself.

as a married person, we often want to change our spouse when the problem actually lies within ourselves. we cannot change another person but we can change our outlook on things. we can learn who we really are. and if there was one lesson that i brought home last year…it is this!

so if you missed out last year… you have one more opportunity to attend this year…

the marriage conference 2017 will inshallah be held on the 22 july 2017 at the sandton convention centre.

theres a whole lot to look forward to such as inspirational talks, an expo, ilm arts festival, youth zone, kids zone and the list goes on.

follow me on instagram for more updates regarding what the line up will be like… INSTA @dvinetreats

to book your tickets, there are different prices for different tickets and all onfo may be found on the following link…


or to view a snippet of last years program, feel free to click on this link….

hope to see you all there as there will also be a bloggers corner….

hurry and book your tickets before they are sold out!!!!


bibi ayesha